Fourth-Tenth Grade Secondary School Open House at Curtis School

Current Fourth through Tenth Grade Parents Interested

in an Independent School for the 2011-12 School Year

Please join us for our



Monday, May 10, 2010

Registration: 6:45 p.m. Program: 7:00–9:00 p.m

Hosted at Curtis School

15871 Mulholland Drive

Los Angeles, CA 90049

Come learn about educational opportunities available for your child in middle or high school. The Los Angeles schools represented at this event are members of the

California Association of Independent Schools (CAIS). Admission Directors from each of these institutions will be present to answer your questions.

Financial Aid presentation included, beginning promptly at 7:00.

Parking available on campus or as directed.

For more information, please call Curtis School at 310-476-1251.

Abraham Joshua

Heschel Day School*

The Archer School for Girls

Berkeley Hall School*

Brentwood School

Bridges Academy

The Buckley School

Calvary Christian School*

Campbell Hall

Chatsworth Hills Academy*

The Country School*

Crossroads School

Harvard Westlake School

Marlborough School

Marymount High School

Milken Community High School

Mirman School*

Oakwood School

Pacific Hills School

Pilgrim School

Sierra Canyon School

Sinai Akiba Academy*

St. Matthew’s Parish School*

Turning Point School*

Viewpoint School

Vistamar School

The Wesley School*

Westside Neighborhood School*

Wildwood School

The Willows Community School*

Windward School

The Independent School

Alliance for Minority Affairs

*denotes through Middle School

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Buckley School Fair-May 8

Get ready for “The Sweet Life” Buckley Fair coming up on Saturday, May 8 from 10:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. The Fair is the only FUNdraising event of the year that brings together the entire Buckley community. You won’t want to miss this wonderful day that helps raise money to support the programs that make Buckley our favorite school.

At “The Sweet Life” Fair, we will celebrate not just candy, but all the sweet things in life. As Laura Ingalls Wilder said, “I have come to believe, it is the sweet, simple things in life, which are the real ones after all.” It promises to be a day full of games, rides, fabulous food and prizes, non-stop entertainment, and, most importantly, lots of family fun enjoying living La Dolce Vita.

We will have everything from an old-fashioned taffy pull and East Hampton style fruit stand to sweet peas for Moms. We hope that you will come enjoy it with your children, family and friends.

What’s new this year at the Fair?

  • New rides including the Round-Up, Tilt-a-Whirl, Rocoplane, Zumur, Crazy Plane and Busy Bees in addition to favorites like the Ferris Wheel, Rat Race, and the Giant Ribbon Candy Slide.
  • Great new food including the Kogi BBQ Truck, Coolhaus gourmet ice cream sandwiches, In ‘n’ Out, Chinois and Lemonade.
  • The Sweet Shoppe and Emporium – an old fashioned sweet shoppe and emporium with every sweet thing you can imagine!
  • La Dolce Vita Boutique: to satisfy your every shopping craving
  • An East Hampton Fruit Stand and much more!
My family and I will be there since one of my girlfriends is co-chairing a fair committee!

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What’s Funny About Admissions? Read This…

From the SFK Files blog in SF. A parent wrote a satirical comment about the admissions process under a pretend name, “Catherine & Kent” .

Anonymous‬ said…

Dear Prospective Parent,

Congratulations on your decision to try to join the elite group of private parents. If you belong, you will be richly showered with offers. Here is a simple recipe for success:

1) Try to get to know the AD’s as intimately as possible. Find a proper social milieu and join them. Invite them to your country club for Ricards (with ice) or a proper gin martini. Find out what country club they attend. If you have friends at that club, get them to invite you to dinner or a round of golf. Sends glasses of pastis and mints to their table.

2) Choose only the elite schools. One or two Mickey Mouse institutions will suffice for backup.

3) Tour with grace and style. A colorful pashmina and a nice pair of Manolo Blahniks are always perfect for the lady. A nice seersucker and black oxfords are ideal for the man.

4) Be sure to pepper your conversation with the ADs with plenty of obscure intellectual references. I recommend the google for finding these little gems. During the tour be sure to mention the powerful people you know in the city and the various social outings you have with them. For example, tea with Charolotte Schultz, cocktails with Wilkes Bashford, duck hunting with Newsom, etc.

5) Always hold your chin up high. This one is self-explanatory and very important. ADs notice stuff like this.

6) Invite your AD to the club for Ricards (with ice). This is a repeat of #1 but very important. Can’t emphasize this one enough.

7) Downplay the play date with the AD. They will know by how you conduct yourself whether or not you belong. The play date is pure bunk.

Good luck, but as I say, if you belong, all will fall into place.


Catherine and Kent

March 26, 2010 12:39 PM

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The Summer Before School Starts: Ideas For Connecting With Other New Families

Now that you’ve selected the private elementary school for your child (or they selected you), you’re probably shifting into the “what’s next” mode. Summer is a great time to meet new families before school begins. Most private schools some offer some or all of the following events to help families get acquainted before school starts:


Host Family “meet and greet”. Many schools ask a current family to host a new family for a lunch or other get together. You may be invited to join your “host family” for an event. This family has been asked by the school to host several new families who have kids who will be in the same class and are most likely the same gender. Note: we’ve heard all kinds of “host family” stories. Most of the families are really nice and welcoming. Our host family at The Willows organized a brunch at her house with homemade cinnamon rolls. A few host families never even bother to call the new family. Sometimes, they will call, but are “too busy” to get together. Others can be arrogant and aloof and unwelcoming. If anything like this happens to you, let the school know. The reason this happens is because new parents are too intimidated to tell the school so it continues year after year.


Picnics. Many schools have summer picnics for the entire school, including new families.


Social events. You may be invited to a variety of social events to welcome you to the school. Parties and other events are the school’s way of welcoming it’s new families.

Visit the classroom. Your new school may invite you and your child to visit the classroom and meet the teachers before school starts.


Playdates. Schools will send out a roster before the start of school. It’s a great idea to have a few playdates with other families before school starts. It will help your child recognize a friendly face the first day of school and it’s nice for you to meet other parents, especially if you don’t already know any incoming families. However, don’t feel insulted if some parents don’t respond. They may be out of town or have older siblings already at the school so they may not feel like a playdate is needed for their child.


Host your own event. Sometimes new families will host a pool party or other event for incoming families. If you do this, just make sure to invite everyone in your child’s class!


Plan your own event. Schedule a moms only get together like a hike or a lunch date. Dads can do the same thing. Again, just remember to invite all the moms or dads in your child’s class! And don’t be upset if some of the parents don’t respond.


We discuss what to expect your during your child’s first year at private elementary school in Beyond The Brochure if you want to know more about this topic.

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Reader Comment: Got the wait-list call for first choice school

Yesterday, a reader left the comment below under the post “Admissions Notes”. I’ve posted it because it illustrates the point we’ve made before: kids DO get accepted off wait-lists. Sometimes the wait-list call will even come over the summer. Here’s how it happens:


We paid our deposit and were very happy with the school where we were lucky enough to be accepted. Originally, it hadn’t been our first choice, but we were waitlisted at our first choice and quickly found happiness with our new school “home”.


Then the unexpected happened – we got the phone call offering us a spot off the waitlist at what had been our first choice. I have to say, even though this is supposedly a “good” problem to have, we were a mess. I couldn’t figure out what my gut was saying, and frankly, I couldn’t figure out if I even had one any more! My husband and I went round and round… I know I shouldn’t say it, but it was miserable.


In the end, we did decide to switch horses midstream, as it were, but it was an agonizing decision. We opted for the change and went with the school that had been our initial first choice ONLY because we thought it was going to be the best choice for our child. In the end that was our focus, and the thrust of our decision making.


I never realized how psychologically hard it was going to be to revisit the whole process again after what we affectionately call, “D-Day”.


Your wisdom has been very helpful and I have appreciated all your insight on this entire subject. Thank you!

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